An Asexual’s Guide To … Male Masturbation
[Up to Masturbation | Main] The techniques and details described in this post are not the only way to masturbate. They’re not the “correct” way or the “best” way. They may not even work for you....
View ArticleAn Asexual’s Guide To … Female Anatomy
[Up to Anatomy | Main] (For most women, most girls, and anyone else who happens to have a clitoris and/or vagina.) Between your legs, right where they meet your body, you’ll encounter a kinda squishy...
View ArticleAn Asexual’s Guide To … Female Masturbation
[Up to Masturbation | Main] The techniques and details described in this post are not the only way to masturbate. They’re not the “correct” way or the “best” way. They may not even work for you....
View ArticleAn Asexual’s Guide To … Masturbation
[Up to Main] What is masturbation? Masturbation is the self-stimulation of the genitals, typically to orgasm. Less scientific, please? Masturbation is touching yourself downstairs in a way that causes...
View ArticleAn Asexual’s Guide To … Arousal
[Up to Main] What’s this “Arousal” thing I’ve heard of? Sexual arousal, the type of arousal I’m talking about here, is the body preparing itself for sexual activity of some kind. It doesn’t mean that...
View ArticleAn Asexual’s Guide To … Anatomy
[Up to Main] While working on the “Asexual’s Guide To …” series, I realized that it would be helpful to give an overview of anatomy, so that all readers will have a common reference point. (Even those...
View ArticleAn Asexual’s Guide To … Orgasms
[Up to Main] What’s an orgasm? An orgasm, also known as “coming” or “climax”, is the peak of the sexual response cycle, and is typically the result of sexual stimulation of some form. An orgasm is...
View ArticleAn Asexual’s Guide To …
There are some topics that I see turn up repeatedly in asexual spaces, yet I rarely see them explored to any great extent. “An Asexual’s Guide To …” was born out of a desire to explore some of those...
View ArticleAce The Ghost: A Story Of Awareness
I made this slide set for Asexual Awareness Week 2013. It tells the story of an asexual ghost in the world of Pac-Man, from loneliness and isolation, through visibility and awareness, to acceptance.
View ArticleWho Cares About Asexuality? (or: Why Visibility Matters)
Whenever asexuality gets mentioned in an article or in an interview, there’s always the inevitable remark in the comment section: Why do you have to talk about this? Who cares that you’re not having...
View ArticleWhat I’ve Missed Out On Being Single
A lot of times, people will say that single people are “Missing Out” on the partner experience. What they generally mean by that is that I do not experience some of the things that have brought them...
View ArticleAsexual Intercourse
The following post is an auto-biographical stream-of-consciousness account of what was going through my mind the first time I had sex. I did not know I was asexual at the time, I did not discover...
View ArticleAce Pride States
Ace flag themed state maps for all 50 United States, plus Puerto Rico and the District of Columbia.
View ArticleAce Pride Canadian Provinces
Ace flag themed state maps for the 10 provinces and 3 territories of Canada.
View ArticleThe Comment Section: You’re Not One Of Us!
[Return to Overview] Whenever asexuality is mentioned, there is a small, but vocal, contingent of territorial people who do not want us around. “You’re not one of us! You don’t belong here!”, they...
View ArticleThe Comment Section: I Know More About You Than You Do!
[Return to Overview] Asexuality is an amazing topic. People who have never heard of it instantly become experts and will start spreading their infinite wisdom on the subject. Never mind that they...
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